What are your views upon sex before marriage?
I see nothing wrong in it, I have more negative views against marriage than I do against this. When I was younger I always thought I’d wait until marriage, probably more so for the wrong reasons though because I had really bad body issues at the time and never really wanted to show myself to a guy but a lot has happened and changed since then and now. I don’t think marriage would be for me, it’s not something I would deserve.
Don’t get me wrong marriage is a beautiful thing when it is between two people who generally love each other. I just don’t ever seeing myself having someone stay around long enough to get married to. I think if there are people who want to wait before marriage then that is fine. If you don’t want to wait then that is fine also, it’s up to the individual and their own values and morales and who am I to judge because each and every person is different.
What is the difference between living and existing?
You know the difference when you have to force yourself to get up out of bed or it just happens naturally. When every day normal life interactions become a struggle to do and it takes effort and you can’t do much more than just that, that’s when all you’re doing is existing. It’s probably one of the times in your life where you’ll be the most selfish and only think of yourself. It’s like your body shuts down and you find it hard just to brush your teeth or to even find the motivation to go out. For the longest of times that used to be me. I’m not going to say a person came in and magically changed things for me because they didn’t. It happened by itself I wanted to go out and see people and be happy. I wanted to do more than just exist and I wanted to make other people happy.
If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
Not going to lie I’m not really much of a ‘save the world’ kind of person, so it wouldn’t be a lifechanging message or anything of the sort. I’d probably just say something about enjoying life while you can and don’t regret anything. I’m shit at things like that hahaha.
Do you think crying is a sign of weakness or strength?
Depending on the situation I can believe it can be either.
If you had to teach something, what would you teach?
Everyone I know tells me they’d think I’d rock as an English or Art teacher because they enjoy my writing and drawings and such iunno. I’d be sucky. I don’t have very high tolerance level with children u…u
What is your biggest fear?
Probably deep water hahah. I’m terrified of deep water, more at the beach than at the swimming centre or at a friend’s pool. I don’t know if it’s because the beach is so huge or if it’s because you can’t actually see the bottom at the beach but it’s always been a huge fear of mine. Mainly because I can’t swim well but I do know how to.
A picture from your childhood
Me at 3 or 4. The only photo I could be bothered finding to upload hahahah.
Would you rather people be honest with you, even if it’s something not good, or lie to you to make you feel good?
Honesty always. It’s how I was brought up.
